Required information on the road to a happy, fulfilling life
There are two questions you must answer in your life.
- Where am I going?
- Who is going with me?
You must ask, and answer them in that order. So says Conversations with God author, Neale Donald Walsch. Bruce and I agree.
For you to create a phenomenal relationship (and remarkable life), you must first know where you’re headed in life. What are you here to do? What is your vision? What is the purpose of your life? The answers to these, or similar questions, help you know the direction you want to head on your life’s journey. It’s imperative to know where you’re going, because otherwise, how will you get there.
Once you know where you’re going, it’s time to consider who will journey with you. Is it one person or many? What qualities do they possess? What is your relationship? It’s essential that you know these answers and more so you can attract this person (or persons) into your life and also select the “right” people from those already around you.
It’s thoughtful questions like these that we invite couples to answer in I Do! I Do! The Marriage Vow Workbook. We believe that self-awareness is the first step in creating a happy, healthy marriage. Step number two is to share your discoveries with your partner. To create a loving, harmonious, and fulfilling partnership you must have such conversations and engage in this voyage together. By using The Marriage Vow Workbook before you officially join your lives, we believe that you set the stage for a more pleasant journey and a more durable and fun union.
So, your turn now. Have you answered the two questions for your life yet? Let us know what you think about these ideas and how engaging in this work might impact your life.
This post is the fourth in the series exploring the reasons why couples are unhappy in marriage and, most importantly, how you can make the shift to a happier more satisfying relationship. Read posts 1–Unhappily ever after, 2–Are weddings ruining marriages?, and 3–Healthy conversation tips for couples.
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